Helping a child cope with a family member’s cancer diagnosis

When someone in the family is diagnosed with cancer, it can be an overwhelming and emotional time for everyone, particularly children.

Cancer affects not only the person diagnosed, but also the emotional wellbeing of the entire family. Children may struggle to understand what’s happening, and they often sense changes even if nothing has been explained to them. Offering clear, age-appropriate information and emotional support can make a big difference.

Below are some strategies to help children cope, along with local support services available to West Australian families impacted by cancer.

Talking to a child about cancer

It’s natural to feel uncertain about how to talk to your child about a cancer diagnosis in the family. However, being open and honest can help them feel secure. Children may feel confused or anxious if they’re kept in the dark, and giving them clear, age-appropriate information helps them feel included and reassured.

It’s okay to feel unsure about what to say, but most children can handle the truth when it’s shared in a calm, age-appropriate way. Encourage them to ask questions and share how they’re feeling. If you don’t know an answer, be honest and let them know you’ll try to find out. When speaking about cancer, use the correct terminology and age-appropriate language.

Let your child know it’s okay to feel sad, scared, or even angry. Being open helps children feel reassured, supported, and less alone.

For more tips, see our article on speaking with children about cancer or te talking to kids about cancer booklet below.